Integrity: Psychoscope July 10th, 2019

It is good to be a stable, gravitational force, a rock, against which trivial petty worries crash and disappear, like waves. This force is your integrity. Integrity is important. If you have integrity people can rely on you, and that's how you know that you are the person of integrity. Everyone needs to cultivate stability and integrity within themselves.

Although to be a stable force is good, it shouldn't stop anyone from changing the narrative they've chosen for themselves so far, even it it takes them a little off the direction of the gravitational force. If we see a need for change - new forces, new interests - we need to recognize them. We need to practice watching out for those new trends and give way for them, put effort into developing them, as that's what make us change and grow. But at some point, new trends need to be merged into your personality so they become part of the 'stable force', and not just fits of random ideas or desires, which are not necessarily bad, but can be wasteful.

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